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Okay how much can a person take?

I've had way  too much stress and heartcahe.  Since October I've had 1 cousin die another cousin missing presumed dead and yet a third cousin told to get his affairs in order cause he doesn't have much time left because of whatever he got when he was in Desert Storm.  Then my Grandma falls down in her home and nobody finds her for a day and a half, she made it she spent a week in the hospital now she is in a long term nurseing home.  My parents get back from taking care of things for my grandma and then my mom has a heart attack , we all spend Thanksgiving in the hospital, the day after Thanksgiving she has a 4 way bi-pass.  She made it through the surgery with no problems. Thank goodness.  Then in Januray my mom is  told that she has uterian cancer.  She has the surgery the first week in Februray she came through that  surgery just fine too and again thank goodness.  The place I work at got sold , that was stressful in of itself as none of us didn't know if we would still have jobs, but that did work out and the new owners gace me a nice raise. Very Good there.  Two months ago  the doctors gave my brother-in-law 2-3 years to live, this past Friday my brother-in-law was life lited to the hospital and on life support,  doctors told my sister that he was brain dead and waited until his brothers got there to termiate life support.  They terminated life support at 11PM and he died at 11:30 PM.  My sister will spread his ashes on their 1st anniversary.


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May. 31st, 2007 10:55 pm (UTC)
Oh god...I'm so sorry. I don't know how you've managed to come through this as well as you have. Just the fact you're talking about it amazes me. Some people would have curled up by now and tried to hide from everyone.

You sound like a very strong individual and I'm sure you're there for your sister right now. She's fortunate to have you with her during this horrible time.

I'm sending good and healing thoughts your way.
Jun. 1st, 2007 03:51 am (UTC)
Thanks for good and healing thoughts.
Unfortually I can't be with my sister she's in Neveda and I'm in Oregon but we talk on the phone. She asked me to go to her myspace page to leave a comment, I went there and I just didn't know what to write.I went totally blank when I was on her site.His site is still up too so she's going to be maintaining that as well. Her husband wanted his ashes spread here in Oregon on their first wedding anniversay and I'll definately bee with her when she does that. There is an upside with my mom she got through the month of radiation without too much trouble, we're gald she didn't have to do the kemo. Thank you again for your good thoughts.
Jun. 2nd, 2007 06:07 pm (UTC)
You're welcome. I know sometimes life throws everything at people at once, but you've been through so much. I hope your sister is doing okay and I think the idea of a myspace page is a good one. It will give her something to do and a way to get comfort anytime she needs it. I'm glad you'll be with her for the spreading of the ashes. I think that would be the hardest, being away from family during a tragedy like this. I'm also really happy your mom is doing well. I hope your family continues to heal.
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